Dating advice: Gifts for HIM for Valentine's Day at any stage of the relationship...

So it clearly depends on how long you have been dating in regards to knowing what is an appropriate Valentine's Day gift. And, let's face it ladies, most men could care less about Valentine's Day. I find that Valentine's Day is the perfect way to give a gift that benefits you both. For example, beer of the month, wine of the month or book of the month clubs, couple massage, night on the town, a night at a bed and breakfast or just dinner out.

If you have been dating just a short time its a fine line as to whether you give a gift. If you haven't had the 'exclusivity' talk yet, just bypass V-Day all together. If you are exclusive any one of the following would be appropriate. And, every one of the following is a gift for you as well.

Beer of the Month Club...(You will be a hit with his buddies)

Wine of the Month Club...

Book of the Month Club?

GPS (if you have money burning a hole in your Prada)

Flat screen TV (if you have money burning a hole in your Prada wallet inside your Louis Vuitton purse)

Couples massage (Ok this is a present for both of you)

Night out at Power & Light (this cabin fever + recession has us all going stir crazy we need to go on dates once in awhile)

Nice dinner at Ophelia's, Cafe Trio, Anthony's, Aixois, Lulu's Noodles, Nara or any other local Kansas City restaurant

Men, I realize you need the most help therefore I am spending time on your 'what to buy her for Valentine's Day' advice column. Besides, we all know you are waiting until the last minute so it won't hurt to publish it later!